Happiness through financial independence

Financial Independence is all about choice. The choice to direct your efforts and energy into the things you care about. The freedom to do this is liberating, and literally can give you unlimited options to pursue your life goals and dreams, and ultimately, to be happy.


Finding out what makes you happy is an inherently troubling thing, and it turns out we are REALLY bad at predicting what will make us happy. I’m no exception – If I look back at myself 10 years ago, 5 years ago and heck even 2 years ago, what I thought would make me happy it is vastly different to what I think now.

The priorities I had and some of my goals have slightly shifted, and achieving certain successes along the way just haven’t brought about the massive shift in my happiness level that I thought it would. But I still consider myself an incredibly happy person and am very thankful for the life I have.

Things like a payrise, promotion at work or a new car can all seem great at first, but its remarkable how quickly we adapt and ‘baseline’ our new found level of happiness. After even just a few short weeks or months, your new found success is normalised, and your back to feeling how you did before them.

This is normal human behaviour. Multiple university studies have shown that in terms of money, once your earning about $60,000, earning anymore wont make you happier. All of your basic needs and bills are met, with ample spending money. Higher income earners are statistically no more happier, and are at risk of destructive factors like lifestyle inflation which make them no more wealthier than their lower earning counterparts.

The best things in life are free

A better way of predicting your happiness can actually be to just try and understand what makes you unhappy, and just avoid that. Not everything uncomfortable should be avoided, and there is loads of stuff which seems difficult at the time or which makes you unhappy which is character building; rejection or failure being one of them. I wouldn’t let the fear of rejection stop me from asking a pretty girl out on a date, in the same way I don’t let the fear of failure stop me from starting a new business.

Whilst what makes you unhappy will vary from person to person, the kind of things I’m generally talking about avoiding are things like consumer debts, sickness and injuries, stress, toxic people (assholes!), a dead end job you hate. Being Financially Independent can give you the ability to change your life for the better, and position yourself to remove a lot of these negative things. Don’t like your job or your working conditions? You can quit. Having serious problems with your neighbours? move somewhere else.

Personally, I think the key to real happiness lies with meaningful relationships and family, and not about a cool job, your bank balance or an awesome motorbike. Although those things are nice to have too.

Staying motivated

To stay motivated, I think about a combination of reaching ‘positive’ happiness goals and also about avoiding ‘negative’ happiness detractors. A few of the things I focus on are wanting to;

  • Start a family and being able to be a stay at home dad
  • Not having to always be away or travelling for work
  • Not having to work long days and on weekends
  • Not having to sacrifice my health for work (know any pilots with good necks and backs?)
  • Be able to live where I choose (close to family)
  • Being able to travel whenever I want to explore
  • Be able to visit family and friends whenever I want
  • Have my home and all my bills paid for with passive income
  • Be able to start a business without having to worry about earning an income

Whats holding you back

The shockingly simple way to get financial independence is to earn more, spend less and then invest the difference. But for the majority of people, somehow life gets in the way, and they are convinced to spend more on liabilities rather than assets.

Its easy to make excuses, blame others and be envious of their success. We live in a society that loves instant gratification where you can charge that new flat-screen TV on credit, or buy that big new (and unnecessary) four wheel drive on finance. We also live in a society plagued by tall poppy syndrome, who are all to ready to cut anyone ‘down to size’ and undermine their accomplishments. Unless you fundamentally change your mindset you will forever lock yourself into being poor, working class, and jealous.

The great rejection

If you want to stop being poor, you need to stop doing things that undermine your wealth and make other people wealthy – like consumer debt. You need to reject commonly accepted personal finance malpractice, and make the commitment to yourself to work towards becoming a little wealthier each day. The great rejection means having the moral courage to reject the destroyers of our wealth and focus your efforts constructively on making a better future for you and your family.

Say “NO!” to things that are going to destroy your wealth

Unnecessary spending

Not only does unnecessary spending make you poorer, it also raises your cost of living. This means it hits you with a ‘double whammy’ of wealth destruction; you need even more investments to become financially independent. Regularly splurging for instant gratification reinforces the bad habit and fuels the poverty cycle, one of the biggest and most silent destroyers of wealth.

Encouraging unnecessary and impulse spending is a clever tactic used by advertisers to boost sales, for example the placement of candy at shopping centre check outs, or ‘limited time only sales’ campaigns. The instant gratification usually provides a level of short term level happiness and feeling of control over your life – you are getting something you ‘want’ (at that moment). But this feeling usually fades, and the spending can easily add up into the tens of thousands of dollars and leave you with an empty bank balance (or even worse credit card debt) and a house full of junk and clutter, which can seriously erode your happiness.

Avoiding unnecessary and wasteful spending is going to be one of your greatest allies in creating and keeping wealth. This means being sensible, living below your means and safeguarding your wealth from things that want to take it from you. The ability to live below your means is crucial for generating wealth. The simple reality is that the further below your means your able to live, the more aggressive you are able to invest and the quicker you will reach Financial Independence.

Check out my list of the [Top 10 things I never waste my money on]

Example – buying coffee a day versus owning the Cafe

Some people love grabbing that takeaway coffee and muffin on their way to walk every day, and don’t mind the regular $7 price tag. Over the average 40 year career that an employee spends in the work force, a 62 year old retiree could have spent over $70,000 on coffee and muffins, but the opportunity cost is over $700,000 had they invested that little bit each day.

I’ll take that extra large orange-mocha-frappe-chino express to go, KTHXBYE!

If they really loved their coffee, maybe they should have used some of that $700,000 to invest in a quality espresso machine at home or to take to work. A top of the range $2,000 home espresso machine, serviced properly and replaced every 10 years, supplied with gourmet coffee beans and milk to make a daily coffee would have come in much cheaper at under $15,000 total, and about a $200,000 total opportunity cost. Think of how good you’d be at coffee art after making nearly 10,000 coffees at home, and with the half a million you’d saved you could probably even buy a couple of cafes!

Ah but what about the muffin you say? Forget about the bloody muffin! I’m trying to badly explain something here so don’t try and pick holes in it.

Frugal is not a dirty word

Frugal: ‘Characterised by or reflecting economy in the use of resources’
Synonyms: Economical, Provident, Thrifty, Wise, Precise
Antonyms: Squander, Wasteful, Spendthrift, Extravagant

Frugal is not a dirty word. To me, someone who is frugal is someone who is efficient with their finances, and usually working towards a higher goal as opposed to just instant gratification. This is someone to be respected and learned from. The dirty word here is the opposite; extravagance and squander.

A marksman can be very frugal with their ammunition by making sure they hit their target

Everyone has a different personal idea about value, efficiency and extravagance, but the key is striking a compromise that fulfils your needs without being wasteful.

Perhaps its the inner engineer in me coming out, but I love efficiency and optimisation. Nothing quite satisfies me like servicing my car and then calculating its fuel efficiency based off its fuel use over the past year. Yes I keep records. In case your wondering, the easiest and simplest ways to improve fuel efficiency is not to drive like an idiot, remove unnecessary weight from the car, and pump up the tyres real good. So in this respect, being frugal with my car actually brings me a lot of satisfaction and happiness.


If there is one happiness detractor that I like to avoid, its advertising. I generally think that if I need (or want) a product or service, I will seek it out myself. I prefer to read user reviews over advertising, as they come from a more wholesome place and a standpoint of experience rather than just trying to get you to buy their crap. Two of my favourite websites I use for reviews are Canstar and Choice, which provide fairly unbiased and decent information.

Choice I will use before making any physical purchase such as a computer, fridge or insurance, wheras Canstar tends to focus more on finance products such as bank accounts, insurance, investments and business products.

This city street is a full on assault to the eyeballs!

At any rate, generally I hate being told what to do. So a television advertisement screaming at me to buy a brand new pickup truck on finance, with all of its associated toxic masculinity (aka if you don’t buy this truck you are a failure of a man) is a surefire way to get me to reach for the remote. Which is why I generally stream online if I want to unwind with a movie (Hellllllllo Netflix and Chill!).

The media

In addition to trying to avoiding advertising, I try to avoid the media like its the plague. Just like I hated being bombarded by ‘BUY NOW’ advertisements, I also hate being bombarded with the doom and gloom and fear-mongering headlines that are pushed over our media. If I listened to them, I would be constantly stressed and paranoid about the next major recession and market crash caused by bankers stealing my retirement funds – which is forecast to come almost weekly if you watch the news.

The device your reading on this is probably used by media to target you hundreds of times per day

Its tricky to avoid, because the media is so pervasive in our society. It is a big industry and is worth billions of dollars (through primarily, yep you guessed it, advertising!). Its in our homes on our television, on our radio, in our smart phones through social media and plastered all over the internet. Its hard to get away from, but taking a few simple steps to disconnect has really improved my overall level of happiness;

Its in our homes on our television, on our radio, in our smart phones through social media and plastered all over the internet. Its hard to get away from, but taking a few simple steps to disconnect has really improved my overall level of happiness;

  • I rarely watch television (public access network / free to air)
  • I never buy magazines or newspapers
  • I try to minimise my time using social media (no phones in the bedroom or after 10pm)
  • I don’t subscribe to any news or media outlets (either through social media or email)
  • I never open clickbaity articles


In summary, money cant buy happiness – but it can let you avoid things that make you unhappy. By making a few simple changes to your mindset you can avoid many happiness detractors and happily build wealth towards your financial independence.

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